A Holy Hug
Recently, a great controversy
took place regarding the hugging, or even touching
of children, by school teachers. The argument raged.
Some saw it as a healthy and wholesome occasional
practice. Others saw it as unacceptable sexual
aggression by teachers. Personally, I think it
a quite wholesome practice, when practiced by wholesome
people.
The other-than-wholesome will find some form of
expression for their licentiousness in any case,
and it seems too healthy a practice to be totally
banned because of a few perverts.
It's something akin to banning all men from walking
in public parks on the grounds that one of them
might be a rapist!
I recently saw three delightful paragraphs on
hugging I'd like to share with you:
"Hugging is healthy; It helps the body's immunity
system, it keeps you healthier, it cures depression,
it reduces stress, it induces sleep, it's invigorating,
it's rejuvenating, it has no unpleasant side effects
and hugging is nothing less than a miracle drug.
Hugging is all natural: it is organic, naturally
sweet, no pesticides, no preservatives, no artificial
ingredients and 100% wholesome.
Hugging is practically perfect: There are no moveable
parts, no batteries to wear out, no periodic check-ups,
low energy consumption, high energy yield, inflation-proof,
non-fattening, no monthly payments, no insurance
requirements, theft-proof, non-taxable, non-polluting
and, of course, fully returnable."
I like that!
Now, it's true that there are perverts, and others
with twisted affections. They are perhaps driven
by a base nature, which has never known the love
of God, and are therefore unable to know what is
right and wrong. They fail to understand what is
appropriate, pure, and wholesome.
Why?
I am convinced that it is because they have never
had their personalities `tuned to normal' by the
indwelling presence of God. Listen to what Paul
says, in Phil. 1:8: "For God is my witness, how
greatly I long for you all with the affection of
Jesus Christ." When Jesus Christ is in control
of your life, an affectionate hug is just that:
an affectionate hug. And it is holy! The problems
arise when those who claim to be living a Christian
life feign affection, when in fact their base nature
is in control. This has often brought great shame
to the Name of Christ Jesus.
But, in spite of that, Paul says, in Rom. 12:10: "Be
kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly
love, in honour giving preference to one another;"
You can hug your motorcycle if you want to, but
there's nothing quite like an affectionate squeeze,
especially when you're feeling a bit discouraged
or low. That's when the Christian should let the "affection
of Jesus Christ" be exhibited.
True affection is not selfish, but supportive.
It can be the most encouraging thing that might
happen in someone's day.
Why not give someone a holy hug today?